In general, having a breast removed should not affect your sexuality. However, some women might lose confidence because breasts are an importance sexual characteristic. You may feel upset about the change in your appearance and may potentially lose interest in sex. You may also be worried that your partner will not accept your new look.
The diagnosis and treatment of breast cancer can have a great impact on you, and on your partner as well. It is important to talk to each other about your feelings and needs. You can express your love for each other by talking, hugging and caressing each other’s bodies. When you feel more relaxed, move on to touching the breasts and genitals. If you have pain during sex due to dryness in the vagina, consider using lubricants.
If you encounter sexual problems that bother you, talk to your doctor, a psychologist or sex counsellor.
More information on sexuality in cancer patients can be found in a booklet “Intimacy, Sexuality & Fertility” published by The Hong Kong Cancer Fund (Chinese version only):
“Intimacy, Sexuality & Fertility”
Written by: Dr YUNG Shuk-Fei Sofie, Department of Obstetrics and Gynaecology, the University of Hong Kong